Some time ago I wrote about the increasing polarization in society between those who understand the need to hunker down and follow the recommendations of health authorities, and those who are getting increasingly irrational about imaginary abuses of their “rights.”

As I surmised back then, that polarization is increasing, and more people are acting out, threatening fellow citizens,  and our entire health-care system.

I am not an expert in constitutional law, nor am I a scientist, or a doctor. But I respect people who have dedicated decades of their lives to education and research.

Conversely, I have decreasing patience for adults who refuse to listen, refuse to learn, and refuse to behave in ways respectful of the health and well-being of their fellow citizens.

There is overwhelming evidence that Covid is real, and that it kills. And that it kills and seriously sickens not only the elderly. Those who survive it carry scars both physical and emotional that could last their entire lives.

So how is wearing a mask in public spaces such a horrific imposition?

I am tired of folks testing, stretching, and bending the rules. When in doubt follow the precautionary principle, not “can I get away with this” childishness.

If your group activity, be it sports, be it religion, be it whatever, is not on a list, just assume the better choice would be to use caution and stay within your family, or your small bubble.

“Well, gee, we didn’t see dodgeball for 50-to-55-year-olds on the list, so we thought it was OK,” just doesn’t cut it, eh?

Don’t turn on Dr. Henry. I see more posts along the lines of loving her in March, but hating her now. How the heck is that logical? She has little control over where this is going, especially if we can’t follow the rules.

And give her, and all the scientists and health-care professionals working on this some space. I know it drives some people crazy that science and medicine is constantly shifting. That advice changes. That recommendations and regulations change.

But that’s how it works. You trial something, you see the results, you trial again. . .

Yes, we’re tired. Yes, we’re stir-crazy. Yes we miss family and friends.

I haven’t seen an 88-year-old aunt since March, though she lives a five-minute drive away. We talk at least every week on the phone. Sad, but that’s the current situation.

Can we please keep on keeping on, and stay safe?

UPDATE (Dec. 12, 2020): I submitted this to the Burnaby Now as an opinion piece and it was published today.